We, as a society, seem somewhat fixated on whether or not a woman is going to have children. Then, once they have them, the new question becomes “Stay-at-home or working mom?” To be honest, my answer to those asking the question would be “None of your business” but that wouldn’t silence the debate. My mother was a stay-at-home when I was really young. I was born with Hydrocephalus and needed a lot of care. Her working was just not an option. However, as I got older, she began to take small jobs outside the home. Though the selfish part of adolescent me wasn’t all that fond of sharing my mother with her work, I could also tell that working made her happy and it didn’t mean she loved me any less. Once again, it all comes down to choice. A woman should be able to stay at home with her kid or work and not have anyone say anything about it.